11 ANNOYING STRUGGLES EVERY GIRL FACES
Struggles are a part of everyone’s life, no person in this world is free from struggles. But, a girl’s life has exceptionally more struggles than anyone else’s. The struggles are, however, difficult to put on a paper, though, here are some struggles, which are an inevitable part of a girl’s life.
The first struggle, a girl faces as soon as she comes in this world, is of her survival. Female foeticide is one of the most common malpractices happening in the country. A girl’s life is ended before it begins. It is hard to believe that parents themselves kill their daughters. Some are killed even before their birth. Girls are considered to be hapless and are therefore killed or thrown in some garbage soon after their birth. This is an incorrigible truth.
A girl is always prone to all the inexorable evil acts done in the society. Girls are sexually abused, mentally harassed and physically harmed. A girl cannot step out of her house anytime and cannot go anywhere. She has to keep struggling to keep such noxious people at an arm’s length.
A girl leaves no stone unturned to establish her own identity. Before marriage, she is known by her father’s name and after marriage by her husband’s name. This struggle of making her own mark continues till the end of her life.
Sacrifice is the synonym of the word GIRL. A girl’s life is full of sacrifices. Fulfilling other’s needs always supersedes her own needs. She has no ax to grind. She self-abnegates her needs for the sake of her family. She is an altruist.
A girl’s life is full of compromises. She is the one who compromises in each and every phase of her life. When she gets married she is given a cold reception by her in-laws. She is the one who feathers the nest. Therefore in order to placate everyone in the family she is the one who compromises.
6. STRUGGLE FOR FREEDOM
A girl is not allowed to pursue her dreams. She is forced to do what others want her to do. She lacks decisiveness and in order to make a fortune she has to go through thick and thin. She is forced to become an obsequious. She has to, therefore, struggle a lot to hold her ground.
7. LIVING OTHERS DREAMS
It can be moreover said fulfilling others expectations. A girl in order to be in the good books of others has to strain her every nerve. She has to fulfill everybody’s expectations except her. She is castigated and abnegated in her every performance.
8. STRUGGLE OF BEING PERFECT IN EVERY ASPECT OF HER LIFE
A girl is always expected to be perfect in whatever she does. She is supposed to be the JACK OF ALL TRADES. She tries to placate everyone in her life. No matter how imperfect a boy is but a girl is expected to be perfect in all spheres of life. Her abortiveness is considered to be her negative aspect. She has to be slim, fair, intelligent, working in order to be a perfect bride irrespective of what a perfect groom should be. She is abnegated if she is not so.
9. MAINTAINING BALANCE BETWEEN WORK AND FAMILY
A girl is supposed to move heaven and earth to maintain a balance between personal and professional life. She has to struggle a lot to maintain this balance. She goes through thick and thin to please everyone in her personal and working space.
10. STRUGGLE TO RAISE HER VOICE AGAINST THE EVILS
A girl has to struggle a lot to bring to light the wrongs done with her. Many people try to disparage her voice. She has to show a lot of audacity to take the bull by their horns. She is castigated at every stage of her life. Raising her voice against the evils is an arduous task for her.
11. DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
Domestic violence is willful intimidation, physical assault and abusive behavior done by the noxious people of the society. A girl is brutally beaten and physically harmed by her in-laws In lieu of dowry. She is forced to be a part of the violent relationship. Many girls in today’s so-called ‘MODERN WORLD ‘are victims of coercion and domestic violence.
In a nutshell, it can be said that HOPE is the only SHEET ANCHOR of a girl’s life. Many people put a spoke in her wheel. A girl’s life is full of vitriol.She has to overcome the STRUGGLE from within. She should not lose patience at such pin prick. It is therefore not a child’s play to be a GIRL.